Sunday, June 19, 2016

My Dad ...

There is a story of a tradition in a particular culture that transfers well to all cultures the nature of Fatherhood.

In this tradition there is a rite-of-passage into adulthood for a boy into manhood. The boy's father takes him into the forest, blindfolds him, and leaves him alone.
...

To pass the test, the boy/man-to-be is required to sit on a stump or log all night and not remove the blindfold until the morning sun shines through the darkness of night.

He cannot cry out for help to anyone.

If he survives the night, he is a man.

He cannot tell the other boys of this experience, because each youngster must come into manhood on his own.

Obviously, the boy is terrified. Being in the dark and blindfolded, his mind plays tricks on him. As the wind blows the grass and trees, he hears all kinds of noises. He thinks wild animals must surely be all around him. But he must sit still, no matter what, and never remove the blindfold.

This is the only way he can become a man.

Finally, after a fearful night, the sun appears and he can remove his blindfold.

Then . . . he discovers his father sitting next to him.

Without the boy knowing, his father has been there the entire night, protecting him from anything that might cause harm.

Whether this tradition of a culture is true or not I don't know, but it tells a lesson for all of us. Even though the youth couldn't see his father sitting next to him, his father was indeed there, ready to fight for his son.

We, too, have our heavenly Father with us all the time. The truth is that we are never alone!
From 'Rediscovering Catholicism' by Matthew Kelly ...

Imagine this ...

You're driving home from work next Monday after a long day. You turn on your radio and you hear a brief report about a small village in India where some people have suddenly died, strangely, of a flu that has never been seen before. It's not influenza, but four people are dead, so the Centers for
Disease Control is sending some doctors to India to investigate.

You don't think too much about it — people die every day — but coming home from church the following Sunday you hear another report on the radio, only now they say it's not four people who have died, but thirty thousand, in the back hills of India. Whole villages have been wiped out and experts confirm this flu is a strain that has never been seen before.

By the time you get up Monday morning, it's the lead story. The disease is spreading. It's not just India that is affected. Now it has spread to Pakistan, Afghanistan, Iran, Iraq, and northern Africa, but it still seems far away. Before you know it, you're hearing this story everywhere. The media have now coined it "the mystery flu." The President has announced that he and his family are praying for the victims and their families, and are hoping for the situation to be resolved quickly. But everyone is wondering how we are ever going to contain it.

That's when the President of France makes an announcement that shocks Europe: He is closing the French borders. No one can enter the country, and that's why that night you're watching a little bit of CNN before going to bed. Your jaw hits your chest when a weeping woman's words are translated into English from a French news program: There's a man lying in a hospital in Paris dying of the mystery flu. It has come to Europe.

Panic strikes. As best they can tell, after contracting the disease, you have it for a week before you even know it, then you have four days of unbelievable symptoms, and then you die.

The British close their borders, but it's too late. The disease breaks out in Southampton, Liverpool, and London, and on Tuesday morning the President of the United States makes the following announcement: "Due to a national security risk, all flights to and from the United States have been canceled. If your loved ones are overseas, I'm sorry. They cannot come home until we find a cure for this horrific disease."

Within four days, America is plunged into an unbelievable fear. People are wondering, What if it comes to this country? Preachers on television are saying it's the scourge of God. Then on Tuesday night you are at church for Bible study, when somebody runs in from the parking lot and yells, "Turn on a radio!" And while everyone listens to a small radio, the announcement is made: Two women are lying in a hospital in New York City dying of the mystery flu. It has come to America.

Within hours the disease envelops the country. People are working around the clock, trying to find an antidote, but nothing is working. The disease breaks out in California, Oregon, Arizona, Florida, Massachusetts. It's as though it's just sweeping in from the borders.
Then suddenly the news comes out: The code has been broken. A cure has been found. A vaccine can be made. But it's going to take the blood of somebody who hasn't been infected. So you and I are asked to do just one thing: Go to the nearest hospital and have our blood tested. When we hear the sirens go off in our neighborhood, we are to make our way quickly, quietly, and safely to the hospital.
Sure enough, by the time you and your family get to the hospital it's late Friday night. There are long lines of people and a constant rush of doctors and nurses taking blood and putting labels on it.

Finally, it is your turn. You go first, then your spouse and children follow, and once the doctors have taken your blood they say to you, "Wait here in the parking lot for your name to be called." You stand around with your family and neighbors, scared, waiting, wondering. Wondering quietly to yourself,

What on earth is going on here? Is this the end of the world? How did it ever come to this?

Nobody seems to have had their name called; the doctors just keep taking people's blood. But then suddenly a young man comes running out of the hospital, screaming. He's yelling a name and waving a clipboard. You don't hear him at first. "What's he saying?" someone asks. The young man screams the name again as he and a team of medical staff run in your direction, but again you cannot hear him. But then your son tugs on your jacket and says, "Daddy, that's me. That's my name they're calling." Before you know it, they have grabbed your boy. "Wait a minute. Hold on!" you say, running after them. "That's my son."

"It's okay," they reply. "We think he has the right blood type. We just need to check one more time to make sure he doesn't have the disease."

Five tense minutes later, out come the doctors and nurses, crying and hugging each another; some of them are even laughing. It's the first time you have seen anybody laugh in a week. An old doctor walks up to you and your spouse and says, "Thank you. Your son's blood is perfect. It's clean, it's pure, he doesn't have the disease, and we can use it to make the vaccine."

As the news begins to spread across the parking lot, people scream and pray and laugh and cry. You can hear the crowd erupting in the background as the gray-haired doctor pulls you and your spouse aside to say, "I need to talk to you. We didn't realize that the donor would be a minor and we . . . we need you to sign a consent form."

The doctor presents the form and you quickly begin to sign it, but then your eye catches something. The box for the number of pints of blood to be taken is empty.
"How many pints?" you ask. That is when the old doctor's smile fades, and he says, "We had no idea it would be a child. We weren't prepared for that."

You ask him again, "How many pints?" The old doctor looks away and says regretfully, "We are going to need it all!"

"But I don't understand. What do you mean you need it all? He's my only son!"

The doctor grabs you by the shoulders, pulls you close, looks you straight in the eyes, and says, "We are talking about the whole world here. Do you understand? The whole world. Please, sign the form. We need to hurry!"

"But can't you give him a transfusion?" you plead.

"If we had clean blood we would, but we don't. Please, will you sign the form?"

What would you do?

In numb silence you sign the form because you know it's the only thing to do. Then the doctor says to you, "Would you like to have a moment with your son before we get started?"

Could you walk into that hospital room where your son sits on a table saying, "Daddy? Mommy? What's going on?" Could you tell your son you love him? And when the doctors and nurses come back in and say, "I'm sorry, we've got to get started now; people all over the world are dying," could you leave? Could you walk out while your son is crying out to you, "Mom? Dad? What's going on?

Where are you going? Why are you leaving? Why have you abandoned me?"

The following week, they hold a ceremony to honor your son for his phenomenal contribution to humanity … but some people sleep through it, others don't even bother to come because they have better things to do, and some people come with a pretentious smile and pretend to care, while others sit around and say, "This is boring!" Wouldn't you want to stand up and say, "Excuse me! I'm not sure if you are aware of it or not, but the amazing life you have, my son died so that you could have that life. My son died so that you could live. He died for you. Does it mean nothing to you?"

Perhaps that is what God wants to say.

Sunday, September 6, 2015

From William A. Donohue’s Catalyst Magazine piece “Pope’s Visit Ripe For Propaganda”


From William A. Donohue’s Catalyst Magazine piece “Pope’s Visit Ripe For Propaganda”

“… The way the media exploit Pope Francis is varied, but there are some common features.  Their four favorite propaganda tricks are to (a) take part of what he has said and present it as if it were accurate (b) attribute to him positions he has not taken (c) press Catholic leaders to agree with these misrepresented views, and (d) give legitimacy to groups that claim to be Catholic but are not …”

By example, Donohue explains the famous “who am I to judge” “quote” (yes, I put quote in quotes).

“… The pope said that a preliminary probe of the [homosexual] priest [who had been alleged of breaking a vow of celibacy] turned up nothing.  He then said that there was a difference between being gay, which was not a problem, and belonging to a gay lobby, which was.

The exchange with the reporter ended with the pope’s famous quote:  ‘If someone is gay and is searching for the Lord and has good will, then who am I to judge him?’  Notice the last word [‘him’] …”

Pope Francis articulated nothing new, nothing that his predecessors would have found amazing.  Donohue continues – “… no pope has ever condemned someone for being a homosexual, and the Catholic Catechism has never said otherwise …

… The first propaganda weapon in the media arsenal is to shorten the pope’s remark to, ‘Whom am I to judge?’  They conveniently leave out his two conditions: (a) that the person search for the Lord and (b) that he be of good will.  By taking his remarks out of context, they intentionally mislead the public.  Leaving out the last word, ‘him,’ allows them to play their second trick.

The second propaganda ploy is to say that the pope’s words were invoked to justify homosexuality.  That is a lie.  The pope was speaking about sexual orientation, not sodomy.  But how is the reader to know this when the deliberately delete ‘him’?  Doing so deflects attention from a person, thus enabling them to argue that the pope was speaking about conduct.

The third propaganda tool is to pressure Catholic leaders into falling in line with what the pope allegedly said.  This is their ‘Catch 22’ game:  either agree with the pope that it is wrong to be judgmental about homosexuality, or explain why the Holy Father is wrong …

The fourth propaganda technique is to take groups that are no more Catholic than the Catholic League is Buddhist, and then pass them off as though they were authentically Catholic.  …

Watch out for surveys that report dissatisfaction with Church teachings on a variety of subjects.  If non-Catholics are included in the poll, why should we care?  If Catholics who do not practice the faith are included, why should we care?  Would these same pollsters ask Catholics what they think about the way Orthodox Jews, or Muslims, treat [Jewish or Muslim] women?  Would Jews or Muslims who do not practice their religion be included in a survey on religious members of their community?”

 

Monday, June 29, 2015

Among Warning Signs On The Road To Serfdom – Change The Meaning Of Words

“… The most effective way of making people accept the validity of the values they are to serve is to persuade them that they are really the same as those which they, or at least the best among them, have always held, but which were not properly understood or recognised before. The people are made to transfer their allegiance from the old gods to the new under the pretence that the new gods really are what their sound instinct had always told them but what before they had only dimly seen. And the most efficient technique to this end is to use the old words but change their meaning. Few traits of totalitarian regimes are at the same time so confusing to the superficial observer and yet so characteristic of the whole intellectual climate as the complete perversion of language, the change of meaning of the words by which the ideals of the new regimes are expressed …”

– From “The Road To Serfdom” by F. A. Hayek, first published in 1944 by George Routledge & Sons, pages 161-162 of Chapter 11, “The End Of Truth”.

Saturday, June 20, 2015

Songs That Remind Me Of My Dad

The funny thing is, in reflecting on this (and I speak in past tense because I'm reminscing on times that are yester-gone), that none of these songs remind me of my dad because of the lyrics themself (with the obvious exception of Paul Petersen's "My Dad") ...

"Silly Love Songs" ... because one of the first (maybe the only) album my dad won playing a radio call in contest was "Wings At The Speed Of Sound".

Any song from the "Calypso" album by Harry Belafonte ... .

"Whipped Cream" ... alright, not actually any song but the album cover itself ... anyone of a certain age knows this Herb Alpert/Tijuana Brass album was part of the homescape.

"Yesterday, When I Was Young" by Roy Clark - never asked why, exactly, but Dad really liked this song.

"Spirit In The Sky" (Norman Greenbaum) ... He simply thought, from what I can tell, it was a good song ... no different than a "good song" of Guy Lombardo, Harry James, etc. ... it was just a "good song" with a good message.

David Bowie "heyday" songs ... "Fame" or "Golden Years" ... I remember Dad saying he liked David Bowie because he (Bowie) seemed to do what he liked whether it was going to be popular/a hit or not ... I wondered about this for years.  I wondered if I misremembered it ... did he mean Alice Cooper (local boy) or David Bowie ... so I asked Dad about it ... He shared almost verbatim what I recalled ... "No, not Alice Cooper (good golfer) - David Bowie ... I've always liked him".  The funny thing to me was that I remember listening to, I think, an AT40 episode - or something - wherein it was shared that David Bowie (through all his enterprises) was the first billionaire rockstar ... I thought it funny of all the "rock" performers my dad would pick to single out as someone he admired he'd pick the first one to become a billionaire.

"If I Were A Rich Man" from "Fiddler On The Roof" ... Dad always, I think like anyone that grew up in (or in the shadow of) the Great Depression, wealth as an attainable reality to any virtuous individual.

"My Dad" ... obvious (the sad thing is that this song DOES remind me of my dad ... to many people don't know this "dad").

I've kept the list short, intentionally ... what songs remind you of your dad, if even for silly reasons?

Saturday, May 30, 2015

Bumper Sticker Logic, Applied ...

I happened to park behind a car that had these two bumper stickers prominently displayed on it's backend (I don't remember precisely which words were emphasized on each, therefore I emphasize none here) -

Feed the greedy ... vote Republican

Vote Tea Party ... or they'll throw a temper tantrum

I have to admit I smiled because I wondered "Who drives this car?" and, if they truly are the fair-minded person I suspect they position themself to be, the bumper sticker I was unable to find, but I'm sure was there on this car somewhere, read ...

Vote Democrat ... or they'll demonize you and aim to destroy your life and that of your progeny

Given these three stickers I asked myself "What are they really saying?"

"Well," I thought, "they are stereotyping" - a behavior absolutely forbade by all - I could offer examples, but why? Anyone reading this is capable of thinking of their own.

Here is what is being said, this is conjecture on my part -

Republican = self-centered, non-caring, wealthy

Tea Party = immature/juvenile, angry, temper-prone

Democrat = Hater, killer, but not self-centered, non-caring, wealthy, immature/juvenile, angry, or temper-prone0

(To be fair, I concede, that I'm almost certain the driver of this vehicle would say that I've been unfair in my characterization of a Democrat - (or at least of the driver himself).

I'm almost certain the driver would say, "My belief is 'Live and let live' ... 'Love everyone' ... 'There is no "right" or "wrong"' ... let it go and let's get along." The problem is that is not what the driver is really saying ... or else, I'd have found a third sticker on the vehicle.)

Then I asked myself "Which of the three would you rather be?"

I waited, but unfortunately the driver of the vehicle did not show soon ... and I had better things to do then match wits with a bumper ... which obviously displayed greater wisdom than me ... but if that was your car ... Thank you for helping me recognize, of the three, the most rational.

Sunday, May 17, 2015

Top Ten Worst Lyrics By A Top Ten Best Lyricist

Number One from my list of "The Top Ten Worst Songs EVER Written By One Of The Top Ten BEST Songwriters Ever"? ...

"Imagine" by John Lennon.  From an American's standpoint, from the political and economic positions (and let's be honest this was clearly a political song, entirely consistent with the bulwark of this man's "statement" pieces) of Democracy and Capitalism has there ever been a more vacuous and stupid set of lyrics from an incredible songwriter? 

I don't think so ... but I'm open to differing opinions.  Don't get me wrong ... He was a GENIUS! 

This song is only comfort to people that are comfortable.  No one waiting on the fruit of a seed or enslaved in shackles or about to be beheaded thinks of this song when searching for hope.

I'm not a reader of souls, but I'm pretty sure, no one finds hope in drivel.  I'm pretty sure honest theists and honest atheists agree on that point.  This song is "drivel".  Which is why it is "Number One from my list of 'The Top Ten Worst Songs EVER Written By One Of The Top Ten BEST Songwriters Ever' ...

Can One Person Change The World?

A father, hoping to inspire his young son asked, "Can one person change the world?".

His little boy pondered for a moment.  He seemed perplexed.  His father, an engineer, timed the response ... six seconds ...

"Yes," the little boy responded, "but not by himself, Dad".

The engineer was unprepared.  Then realized he finally understood what was meant by "... from the mouths of babes ...".

Fer and Uh-Ghin

If you tell me what you are for I can draw reasonable conclusions that expand beyond a single line.  If you only tell me what you are against I can only conclude, if I'm honest, that you are against this one thing.

Saturday, March 14, 2015

Counting A Blessing Today ...

Today, I had one of those great experiences for which I just had to turn to God and say "Thank you!" ...

As I was driving home through a neighborhood I happened to notice a child on the sidewalk that was riding a bicycle.  She let go of the handlebars and I thought "Wow, I'm getting to witness her first attempt alone in the world riding without her hands" ... it was awesome!

Looking back in the mirror and seeing in her face all that excitement and fear and recognition of new potential in her face (yes, of course, I'm projecting!) ...

How could one witness that and not think back on one's own similar experience ... how fun!

What a blessing!

Thank You, God ...

Friday, November 14, 2014

She was the most beautiful woman in the world. 

No one doubted. 

With one picture ... the world took note.  She was beautiful.  No one questioned it. 

She even came to believe it beyond question. 

She had heard it so many times that she accepted she was beautiful. 

The definition of the word personified.  Not in an arrrogant way ... just in a way that one would expect to accept something they'd heard all their life.  If you'd heard all your life you're ugly or you'd be pretty if only you had a better smile ... she never heard those criticisms ... she came to believe that she was what the world saw as beautiful. 

She knew her faults. 

She knew she wanted to be loved for who she was ... not for what she looked like.  It is not that she knew she was not beautiful it was that she knew she was no more beautiful than any newborn child.  For some reason everyone saw in her the beauty of a newborn child.  It became a burden.  She wasn't "beautiful" in that sense ... she knew it ... she was human ... a "human" ... a beautiful human, she understood. 

She, however, knew herself as only she and God knew.  No matter what praise the world might lavish upon her ... she was still her ... the girl ... the being ... the creature she'd known all her life. 

She wasn't the fantasy caught in a still frame.  Though, the world might have embraced that "thing" in a picture ... that wasn't her to herself ... that was just one picture ... one still frame ... and life is more than that ... and that, she had grown to learn, painfully ... moment to moment ... is not what most people knew. 

In a weird way she lived her life as an infant ... a fantasy ... but her life was hers ... not theirs ... not a poster on a wall ... no matter how much her fame and fortune were entwined with that image ... she was a woman ... a life ... a being ... someone that wanted more than a stillframe could ever know ... and so her secret became a quest to share that that one image is and is not her. 

One moment in time may define a life to others ... but to the one whose life is being defined it is only one moment in a long relationship ... no matter how long the life ... it is only one moment in a lifetime relationship with God ... with one's Creator ... she knew she had to share that truth with others ... no matter how unpretty ... how damaging it might be to that "one moment" image ... and she did ... and survived ... providing testimony that no one understands ... a testimony that on the last day, in the last moment is between her and her God ... Who was there in the first moment when ... and in the moments that followed ... so many marvelled at what they did not understand ... what they saw ... but did not see ...

Friday, September 26, 2014

Religion of peace?

There is so much I want to write about the beheading in Oklahoma ... I'm prompted, though I have mixed feelings, to post this instead related to Sy Miller and Jill Jackson ...

A Brief History of “Let There Be Peace on Earth, and Let It Begin with Me”

    Sy Miller and Jill Jackson were a husband and wife songwriting team. In 1955 they wrote a song about their dream of peace for the world and how they believed each one of us could help create it.

    They first introduced the song to a group of teenagers selected from their high schools to attend a weeklong retreat in California. The young people were purposefully from different religious, racial, cultural and economic backgrounds, brought together to experiment with creating understanding and friendship through education, discussion groups, and living and working together in a camp situation. Sy Miller wrote in his own words what happened:

    “One summer evening in 1955, a group of 180 teenagers of all races and religions, meeting at a workshop high in the California mountains locked arms, formed a circle and sang a song of peace. They felt that singing the song, with its simple basic sentiment – 'Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me,' helped to create a climate for world peace and understanding.

    ‘When they came down from the mountain, these inspired young people brought the song with them and started sharing it. And, as though on wings, 'Let There Be Peace on Earth' began an amazing journey around the globe. It traveled first, of course, with the young campers back to their homes and schools, churches and clubs. Soon the circle started by the teenagers began to grow. Before long the song was being shared in all fifty states – at school graduations and at PTA meetings, at Christmas and Easter gatherings and as part of the celebration of Brotherhood Week. It was a theme for Veteran’s Day, Human Rights Day and United Nations Day. 4H Clubs and the United Auto Workers began singing it. So did the American Legion, the B’nai B’rith, the Kiwanis Clubs and CORE. It was taped, recorded, copied, printed in songbooks, and passed by word of mouth.

    ‘The song spread overseas to Holland, England, Italy, France, Germany, Lebanon, Japan, India;  to South America, Central America, Africa, Asia and Australia. The Maoris in New Zealand sang it. The Zulus in Africa sang it.”

    Professional singers began singing it. Over the years many artists have performed the song.  Among them are Tennessee Ernie Ford, Andy Williams, Danny Kaye, Nat King Cole, the Smothers Brothers, Roy Rogers, Dale Evans, Eddie Albert, Placido Domingo, Edie Adams, Gladys Knight, Mahalia Jackson, John Gary, Pearl Bailey, Roberta Shore, Champ Butler, the King Sisters, Mary Tyler Moore, John Raitt, Liberace, Bob Crosby, the International Children’s’ Choir, Gisele MacKensie, Lloyd Bridges, Patti Page, Angela Cartwright, the Young Americans, Jack Smith, Pat Boone, Crystal Gayle, Vince Gill, Harry Connick Jr., Johnny Mathis, Allison Chu, Rhonda Fleming, the Norman Luboff Choir. Television shows with Bing Crosby, Bob Hope, Lorne Greene, The Boston Pops, Ted Mack and Father Keller have used the song.  

    “Let There Be Peace on Earth” was awarded the George Washington Honor Medal by the Freedoms Foundation at Valley Forge for “Outstanding achievement in helping to bring about a better understanding of the American Way of Life.” It also received a Brotherhood Award from the National Conference of Christians and Jews.

    In Sy Miller’s words again: ‘This simple thought, 'Let There Be Peace on Earth, and Let It Begin With Me' first born on a mountain top in the voices of youth, continues to travel heart to heart – gathering in people everywhere who wish to become a note in a song of understanding and peace—peace for all mankind."

http://www.jan-leemusic.com/Site/History.html

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

Re-Thinking The Crusades?

I wonder, in light of current events, are any anti-Catholics or anti-Christians considering taking another intellectually honest look at the Crusades?  I wonder if anyone's eyes are being opened enough to recognize - maybe the stories they've heard for so long about "those awful Christians" and "those innocent Muslims who were just trying to spread their faith" - ought to be looked into more deeply.  I wonder.

Saturday, July 5, 2014

Seven Per Cent

According to a recent Gallup Poll - that's the number - 7% - of Americans "trust" Congress ... I find that believable ... how 'bout you?  Let's re-phrase that down to an individual ... what that basically says is I almost never believe my member of congress ... for me that's true ... "my" congressman ... I don't believe him at all ... my senator one I believe over 70% of the time ... the other I believe 0% percent of the time ... what are your numbers?

Wednesday, July 2, 2014

A Hard Past ... A Difficult Life ...

Do you know anyone ... including yourself ... that given an incentive ... is unable to describe their lives as "difficult" ... do you know anyone that is unable to empathize with the hardships of others based on their own hardships?

Monday, June 30, 2014

Fake Posts By Facebook

Jokingly, about two years ago, I suggested that the technology at facebook would lead to facebook posting phony posts ... posts that, based on your profile and where you clicked and what you "liked" and key words in previous real posts ... posts that "sound like" something you'd post ... now comes this following story ... was my joke so far-fetched?

What happens when "your words" are no longer your words?

What happens when you're reduced to less than a number?

I really am curious ...

http://www.businessinsider.com/facebook-study-emotional-states-transfer-2014-6 (pulled on 6/30/14)

Facebook's data scientists conducted a massive experiment where it messed with people's feeds and proved that longer-lasting moods, like happiness or depression, can be transferred across the social network.

The company tweaked the Newsfeed algorithms of 689,003 unwitting Facebook users, so that people were seeing an abnormally low number of either positive or negative posts.

In a recently published study, the scientists say they found that when people saw fewer positive posts on their feeds, they produced fewer positive posts and instead wrote more negative posts. On the flip side, when scientists reduced the number of negative posts on a person's newsfeed, those individuals became more positive themselves.

"Emotional states can be transferred to others via emotional contagion, leading people to experience the same emotions without their awareness," study authors Adam Kramer, Jamie Guillory, and Jeffrey Hancock write. "We provide experimental evidence that emotional contagion occurs without direct interaction between people (exposure to a friend expressing an emotion is sufficient), and in the complete absence of nonverbal cues."

This idea is interesting in and of itself, but the AV Club's William Hughes also points out that the study highlights something that most users probably don't think about: By agreeing to the Facebook's Data Use Policy when you sign up, you're automatically giving it permission to include you in big
psychological experiments like this, without your knowledge.

Facebook says it does research like this experiment to figure out how to make the content people see on Facebook as relevant as possible. A spokesperson sent us the following comment:
"This research was conducted for a single week in 2012 and none of the data used was associated with a specific person’s Facebook account. We do research to improve our services and to make the content people see on Facebook as relevant and engaging as possible. A big part of this is understanding how people respond to different types of content, whether it’s positive or negative in tone, news from friends, or information from pages they follow. We carefully consider what research we do and have a strong internal review process. There is no unnecessary collection of people’s data in connection with these research initiatives and all data is stored securely."
(Hat-tip to Rami Ismail who tweeted the study.)

Read more: http://www.businessinsider.com/facebook-study-emotional-states-transfer-2014-6#ixzz369MRjz8h

Saturday, June 28, 2014

I wanted to make a difference ...

I wanted to make a difference - for goodness -
So, I spoke loudly into the microphone
To everyone
... and I only made a fool of myself
.... no one said anything - good

I wanted to make a difference - for goodness -
So, I turned to my neighbors and co-workers
and spoke loudly in the public forums available
To my neighbors and co-workers
... and I only made a fool of myself
..... no one said anything - supportive

I wanted to make a difference - for goodness -
So, I turned to my closest circle and family
and spoke less loudly ... to them ... directly
... and I've heard - from my closest circle and family
..... I only made a fool of myself
......... no one said anything - supportive

I wanted to make a difference - for goodness -
I spoke loudly to myself
and I made a difference
No one saw it
... but I made a difference for good

Thursday, June 26, 2014

facebook

It is an odd thing, I find, the things I post on facebook that get lots of response and those that get no response ... there is a pattern ... and it is not encouraging toward individuality ... it supports homogeneity ... which, I think, is the opposite of political correctness ... weird, huh?

Sunday, November 17, 2013

The Animals’ School – By George Reavis



A Story About Recognizing Your Strengths

Once upon a time, the animals decided that they should do something meaningful to meet the problems of the new world, so they organized a school.
They adopted an activity curriculum of running, climbing, swimming and flying.  To make it easier to administer, all of the animals took all of the subjects.
The duck was excellent at swimming.  In fact, he was better than his instructor.  However, he made only passing marks in flying and was very poor at running.  Since he was so slow in running, he had to drop his swimming class and do extra running.  This caused his webbed feet to become badly worn, meaning that he dropped to an average mark in swimming.  Fortunately, “average” was acceptable, therefore nobody worried about it – except the duck.

The rabbit started at the top of the class in running, but developed a nervous twitch in his leg muscles because he had so much makeup work to do in swimming.

Saturday, July 20, 2013

The Will To Fail

I was reading a Norman Vincent Peale book when I happened upon the phrase/concept "The Will To Fail".  The following was retrieved from http://18mind.com/mind/wake_up_and_live_the_will_to_fail on 7/20/13 ... the video of the 1961 Katie Lee song was retrieved the same date on youtube and in about two and a half minutes, with humor, portrays and explains what the concept may look like in action ...

The Will to Fail
FROM the disciples of Schopenhauer and Freud, of Nietzche and Adler, we have all become conversant with such phrases as the Will to Live and the Will to Power. These phrases, representing---sometimes to the verge of overstatement---drives of the organism towards fulfillment and growth, correspond to truths of experience with which each of us is familiar. We have seen children struggle to make themselves and their personalities felt; as young people we have contended for a chance to try our own emerging forces; after long illness we have felt the tide of returning strength in our veins. We know that any average man caught in unfortunate circumstances will put up with poverty, distress, humiliation with conditions which an onlooker will sometimes consider as much worse than death; and that only the presence of a will to continue living can account for the tenacity with which a man in such circumstances clings to the mere right to breathe and exist.

Furthermore, we first experience and then later turn to realize the process of growth in ourselves. The individual, emerges from childhood into adolescence, from adolescence into maturity; and at each of these crisis we find that the activities and interests of the old period are being replaced by those of the new, that Nature is preparing the organism for its new role in the world, is actually reconciling us to the new demands on us by showing us pleasures and rewards in the oncoming state which will replace those we must abandon.